Sree in his traditional dress
It is very hard to manage a web site in between the tasks of managing the children, cooking, cleaning, washing and everything. But we can not change the situations. I am writing these words from my own experience. For the last few years I had procrastinated my career for the house hold chores. But now my second child is only 2 years old and his grand mother is not healthy enough to manage him alone. Finally my mind reached a conclusion that to do something to earn, something to remember, something that polishes your knowledge, something that will not hurt anyone, something you enjoy to do. Now I am doing some internet based activities without disturbing anyone. Some tips from my experience..
- Don't expect that the situations will change overnight
- Try your maximum to Convince your child about your work
- Share everything with your husband
- Fix some hours to work and also spend some time with the child
- Don't try to make your home clean and beautiful as in cinema or in serials
- Mind plays the keyrole in every thing so place it in the creative mood
- Just keep some time to pray
- Try to wake up early morning and finish the cooking
- Don't try to make every thing 100%
- Appreciate yourself for doing such wonderful things
In between all these tips sometimes I will shout to my children. It is also a safety valve of the mind.
Tom and Jerry
1 comment:
u seem a very practical person, coz u have written the exact things i feel happens tomost of us (though i dont have kids), i too gave up my career after mariage as my husband works outside....we dont have kids (wud love to, but had a miscarriage , so waiting for another chance).....but there are several unavoidable people in our lives, whose thoughts just invoke some not so pleasant times....those times, i didnt know what to do, so i am also in the process of finding ways to do positive and practical thinking:)
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